An Update - An Encounter With a Cow

It has been nearly two weeks since my father had his accident. He has been to see the orthopedic doctor, and the doctor thinks that surgery is unnecessary. It will take approximately eight weeks for the bone to heal, and then Dad will need physical therapy after that.

Dad is trying to adapt his life to his new challenges. He can walk with the aid of a walker, and he has help from a home-healthcare service for his personal needs. Meals-on-Wheels comes once a day Monday through Friday. The bathroom has been equiped with grabbars for his safety.

Dad is cheerful and upbeat. He says that the accident could have proven a lot worse. He is still whistling (note: Dad has always shown his joy in life by whistling).

In times of need, people often show their true colors. This is so true of my brother Kent and his wife Barbara. Kent has transported and sold every remaining cow on Dad's farm. He has stayed with Dad and when he couldn't be there because of work, he has called on a daily basis. Barbara has been phenomenal. She has spent numerous days with Dad, cleaning and organizing cupboards, closets, and entire rooms. She has brought food and done errands as well. I cannot say enough about the support she has shown in Dad's time of need.

Grandchildren have called, come to visit and brought food. Neighbors and church friends have also brought food and visited. We appreciate all this help so much.

We cross our fingers that Dad will totally recuperate and return to his normally active life. He is in better shape than many 60-year-olds (says the orthopedic doctor). He has a lot of living yet to do!